Saturday, June 25, 2011

I am in need of advice and comfort. Can someone please answer. Mother died, sister's gone.....?

I am going to try to make this short as possible. I am an 18 year old high school female, soon to be a graduate later on this month. My mother ped away about 8 months ago, she was the only parent in our lives (sister, brother and myself.) She was a single parent the whole, my sister and brother have father, but aren't consistent and I have never met my father at all in my life, so to lose my mother was extremly devestating. :'( Anyway, so my older brother and his girlfriend who are 4-5 years old than me and also my younger sister who is 5 years younger than me chose to stay all together in the house. My sister's dad chose to accompany us for a while until things went sour between him and my older brother. So my sister and her father don't live with us anymore. My brother and his girlfriend recently gave birth to my nephew who is 3 months. Their relationship has a huge reputation for having terrible problems. It's been off and on, mainly because the lack of care my brother seems to have about anything besides himself. :( Well yesterday, they seperated for good and she no longer lives with us. This is because she found a GREAT job for my brother on Craigslist, got an interview, bought him clothes for the actual interview and he was hired about a couple days later. The job paid $2,000/month! Which was great. But, he quit his job after two days because he didn't like the fact that the job paid every 30 days and not every week or every other week. She chose to left because he only looked out for himself knowing we need help with bills, food and everything. Times have become really hard. I am looking for a job, but at the time I get survial soical security benefits from my mother's ping. I help pay a couple of bills and any food we need. Now, that she gone, I'm not sure what to do. My brother has depended on her for everything, but I feel like he going to be bottom feeding off of me... driving him places, pay for this, pay for that, clean (which he doesn't do any of that). I was really close to his girlfriend and also my little nephew and now that they are both gone, the house just isn't a home anymore. I'm starting to slip into depression yet again. I'm stressed about school, now there are more worries at home. Why would he leave me with all of this? He still doesn't seem to care and doesn't even try to stand on his own feet, that's why she left him because she wants him to LEARN to do so... but I see no motivation. We have $11,000 in property taxes and it's impossible for us to pay it all, so the home I have known half of my life will be gone soon :( *sigh*, I just don't know what to do. All my brother does is invite friends over, smoke, drink, play video games. He is 22 years old. It doesn't even seem to phase him that his SON is no longer living with him nor his girlfriend. Our house in no longer a home and it's draining. So many things have gone wrong ever since my mother has ped and I always seem to be caught in the middle. It's been three days since my brother's girlfriend has left and still no change from him. And now that since it is the weekend, he will probably invite many of his gy friends :/ My bf doesn't feel comfortable with me living them alone with my brother since he has shown that he is obviously irresponsable and there are so many of his friends running back and fourth, he didn't have a problem with my brother's girlfriend was there, but now it makes him uncomfortable and I feel the same :/ I cry every day, why are all the bad things happening to me? I no longer have real support or guidance. I miss my mom, my sister, my brothers girlfriend, my nephew. I miss everyone :( PLEASE HELP!!!!

Put the Candy in order from BEST to WORST?

Milkyway, Skittles, Willy Wonka Bar, Sour Patch Kids, Reeses, Kit-Kat, Peeps, Mr. Goodbar, Butterfingers, and lastly SnoCaps seeing as I have no idea what they are.

Please, Rewrite my sentences to prose sentences and correct them grammatically.?

During his tenure with our company, He was responsible for many of the office's basic administrative and clerical functions. John effectively managed several istants to maintain efficient company operations. While under my supervision, his responsibilities included selecting and supervising workers and civil engineers. John was always willing to offer his istance and had an excellent rapport with the many constituents served by our office including clients, employers, and other professional organizations. In addition, John was motivated and interested in learning . He is highly respected by the people who work under his supervision . His ability to get work done through the service personnel has been outstanding. He is highly respected by the people who work under her supervision, he is organized, thorough in his paperwork, and is always on time. I am amazed at the ease with which John can fulfill a variety of tasks. He has worked for us not only as a supervisor , but also as a tutor to our employees. I would highly recommend him for any position or career that he may now choose to pursue.

Floor hockey league near centralia wa?

Is there a team of floor hockey players near centralia wa. I loved playing it in school. And want to start playing again

Can someone help me turn a song to a prose?

Ok now me and my friend was giving a different song from his parents and my song is R-Kelly- I Believe I Can Fly (http://www.lyricsondemand.com/r/rkellylyrics/ibelieveicanflylyrics.html) and they want us to turn the songs in a prose and I never learn this in school an im in the 11th grade sad ain't it #Cleveland Schools

How can i ask my daughters father's family too back off without offending? 31.5wks pregnant?

when i fist told my babys father i was pregnant he was brilliant and even asked me to move in with him. i moved very far from home and lived with him and his family, however things soon went sour and i got very hurt and messed around, he soon told me he wanted me to abort or giver her up for adoption and he didnt want to be a dad. his family were extremely upset at him. his family have always involved themself in our issues and more often than not make things worse. Now i have moved back home and have been getting used to things on my own. i recently got a message from my babys father asking if he could be at the birth, i asked him why and he said he 'thinks' he feels 'okish' about things now. hes constantly high and seriously immature. i think he is only asking to be there because his family are telling him he has too, and i dont want him to see out daughter because he feels obligated. i have given him chance after chance to get involved and he hasnt even now hes messing about with weather or not he'll come and help me after she's born so i know his heart isnt in it. he also ignores me a lot and then makes up excuses wich are lies. Although his family are moderatly nice i feel like they are too involved, often i cant breathe because i feel overwhelmed by how involved they are. And honestly, they are quite disfunctional. I feel like both myself and my daughter would be better off without him or his family in our lifes , theres too much drama in their life and i really just want to concentrate on being a good mum. I wouldnt stop him from seeing him if he was behaving appropriately and responsibly and wasnt going to be damaging too her but right now hes not. regardless i will still let him have controlled visits etc but i really dont want his family around, i feel they make things worse and i dont know how to tell them without offending them?

SHOULD I PURSUE THIS GIRL I MET ON A CRUISE? don't want to come off too strongly ! ADVICE PLEASEEEE?

I think she's just teasing you, I think you should call her and ask her for a dinner or something, worse comes to worse she's gone say no. then at least you know if she was interested or not, but don't give up hope because 90% of the times when girls say no they mean YES, so even if she said no, try one more time like a week after.